I would argue that for the most part, Anya was never really a member of the Scoobies (I don't think Buffy considers her a friend), and also, until late S5 - S6, didn't really want to be.
Spike, unless we consider the time when Buffy was dead (and we really don't know enough about that period), never wanted to be a Scoobie. He loved Buffy, was very fond of Dawn and Joyce, but for the rest of the people, at very least, he didn't care about.
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Date: 2007-07-04 03:50 pm (UTC)Spike, unless we consider the time when Buffy was dead (and we really don't know enough about that period), never wanted to be a Scoobie. He loved Buffy, was very fond of Dawn and Joyce, but for the rest of the people, at very least, he didn't care about.